You need therapy. That's all there is to it. Maybe I'll hook you up with Dr. Erwin...I'm sure he knows of someone who can help you deal with your obsession.

But...at any rate, I love you, too, baby!

"I'm dead serious about this, repeatedly tickling someone who intensely hates it is pure sadism." Indeed, and the world is full of us looking for seriously ticklish people like YOU. We come in all different sizes, shapes, and sexes. In my family, the women were the best and most sadistic ticklers. When we find you, it's a joy to listen to you try and act tough and threaten us, because we know that when we get you - and we WILL get you - you'll be helpless with laughter in our hands. We know exactly how to hold you down and exactly where to look for the best tickle spots. We're not all brutish oafs that tickle too hard and without a sense of to joy of the chase, capture, teasing and torment to be had from Real Tickle Monsters. Why do we do it? You said it yourself, we're sadists. Ah, it feels good to admit it. Now, tell me, are you ticklish... common, tell me....I'm gonna get you!

im one of em sadist.. its my habit of pinning people(mostly friends and family) down to the ground and tickle them until they start to cry and laugh at the same time... sometimes i use ropes on my unsuspecting "victims", hands, feet and all.. its gives me total satisfaction...
until i found my match!! my wife totally hate being tickled!! she is THAT ticklish that im constantly tempted to hunt her down. even though all hell breaks loose when i try to tickle her.. damn, i end up getting kicked or punched n the face every single time i try..
i just didnt get why anyone could hate it that much... right now im starting to control myself, i figured its just a matter of respect..

I can't imagine any adult who likes to be tickled. Kids love it. It's good childish fun if done right and they're ok with it. Personally I don't like being tickled too. My husband learned the hard way and got socked in the groin....ouch! I don't think it's about not wanting to laugh or let go, it's really painful to someone who doesn't like it.

and she kicks me in the nads when I do it

Yipes. That would end badly for me.

I ALSO hate being tickled. And my husband ALSO tickles me.

I hate it because it's unpleasant over stimulation and it makes me feel very vulnerable. Ick.

My husband does it because a)he thinks it's funny to watch my squirm and b)he thinks of it as a playful punishment or a way to assert dominance over me.

I've never struck him because of it. Usually I just beg and plead for him to stop. I don't think he understands exactly how awful an experience it is. I try to tell him that just because I'm laughing doesn't mean it's funny. I don't get pissed about it, though. I endure it until he's satisfied (he usually tickles me until I say a certain thing he wants to hear or agree to something) and when he's finished I'm over it.

I guess it's a guy thing. Hmmm.

My husband does it because a)he thinks it's funny to watch my squirm and b)he thinks of it as a playful punishment or a way to assert dominance over me.

I think this is exactly what thye get out of it..hehee!


When my hubby does it I usually start arms flaying and feet kicking so whereever my arms and feet land....I have no control over...just anything to get him to stop.LOL!

Here's a thought...is it possible to be tickled to death? A morbid thought I know, but one that makes me go....hmmm?