That's a good question for yourself, actually.  If you are coming home so stressed out that you have to scream and get over it, then you need to do some soul searching and figure out what you need to change in your life.  That is simply not normal, especially considering the job that you have, and the fact that you are not also raising a family.  For contrast, I am one of the VPs here, I have a family, animals that I care for and I volunteer at an animal sanctuary.  At no point am I so "stressed" that I have to go home and scream or anything else.  If school is *that* stressful, you are in the wrong profession.

Not really.  I have only been in the position that I am in right now for about 4 years.  Prior to that, I was a Director, and prior to that, I was a manager, and prior to that, I was just an office person at a start up company and worked 60+ hours a week and only got paid $7.00 and hour for a 40 hr per week salary.  (don't do the math on the actual $ per hour- it's not pretty).  I've never felt stressed out unless I let something get under my skin that didn't need to.

Even when you are learning, you shouldn't really feel very stressed.  If you are working at the job that you should work at, you should look forward to the next day and not bring home stress.  I bring home work, but not stress.

You are the only one who really knows how you feel.  All I know is that stress is not healthy, and you should talk to somebody if you really do feel stressed a lot.  Stress will not help any of your life, and can actually hold you back at work if not controlled.  Only you can make the call on how much it effects your life, though.  I'm not saying this to criticize, it's meant as a sincere suggestion.

I know you are defensive about this, but I'm going to ask anyway: How much does the bike actually cost you per month, and can you really justify keeping it?  If you add up the payment + insurance + interest on other debts that the money could be paying off instead, what does that end up to be, and can it really be justified?

As an example, let's assume that the bike costs $300 per month and has a $20 per month insurance on it.  Say it cost $15,000 to start and you owe 50% (these are all just numbers, yours will vary).  If you sold the bike for $11,000, you would pay off the remaining $7500 and have $3500 to pay off other debt with.  On top of that, you would also have the $320 per month to pay on debt, plus save the extra interest on the loan(s) that were paid down.

Part of being fiscally responsible is separating needs and wants.  When money gets tight, you have to really be able to justify any unnecessary expenses.  what made sense and was "OK" at one point in your life may be the one thing that stresses your financial stability later on.  You really need to analyze ever expense and be able to justify it with a real need.  If you can't justify it with a real need, then you should have the extra cash to be able to afford it as a want.  If neither are true, then you should not have the expense if you can possibly get out of it.

How does a Trailer cost that much???  My House payment+ escrowed property tax barely costs more than that a month, and I can guarantee that it is much more substantial than a trailer.  

Hmmm...have you ever thought about working in a children's library?  My local library (I live in a very small, rural community) has a huge literacy section for kids.  There are two librarians who are in charge of it.  They stock the newest books, help kids find appropriate books.  But, more importantly, they come up with creative reading programs and a summer literacy program that ends with a party for the kids.  They also have fundraisers for their programs and work with the community.  They have special needs groups, and groups for different ages. 

Or, what about working with preschool aged Children, or working at a Parents as Teachers type group (it's a pre-preschool program that helps parents learn how to constructively play with their kids in a teaching manner, and also helps them deal with individual problems). 

Even if these things don't exist where you live,it doesn't mean you can't pursue them somewhere, or even try and start them in your community.

Considering that you live in a rental, and neither of you have been at your jobs for long (or have even started one), you should not consider it temporary until you have both been employed at the same jobs for at least 12 months.  It's your justifications for excessive spending that will be your financial doom.  You talk like everything is fine, then you state that you let your insurance lapse and the lender now charges you more for insurance.  You also bought a trailer that you couldn't really afford since you didn't have a decent down payment.  You really need to take a hard look at your justifications and ask yourself if this is how you want to live long term.  Is the part time use of a motorcycle worth the long term costs?  Really think about it.  Don't justify, look at the real costs of your lifestyle purchases.

That's insane.  My first house, which wasn't that long ago, was $110,000 including the land.  It was a modular cape cod and was 1,200 sq ft.  We had looked at trailers at the time (we didn't want much of a payment), and they were in the $50,000 range or less, even with the drywall option.  I can't even imagine how you would spend that much on a trailer, especially considering how fast they depreciate.

If you don't want to lose your butt on the trailer, I would suggest finding a piece of land that you can buy on land contract and plopping the trailer on it, put in a well and septic (or hook up to city if available) and either live in it or sell it with the land.  Even if you spent $40,000 on the land, with a 25 year land contract at %, you would be paying $283 per month is land payment (which will appreciate, and is sell-able).